Into the within

Abraham Maslow's Characteristics of Self-Actualizing People -> Keen sense of reality - aware of real situations - objective judgement, rather than subjective -> See problems in terms of challenges & situations requiring solutions, rather than see problems as personal complaints or excuses -> Need for privacy & comfortable being alone -> Reliant on own experiences & judgement - independent - not r eliant on culture & environment to form opinions & views -> Not susceptible to social pressures - non-conformist -> Democratic, fair & non-discriminating - embracing & enjoying all cultures, races & individual styles -> Socially compassionate - possessing humanity -> Accepting others as they are & not trying to change people -> Comfortable with oneself - despite any unconventional tendencies -> A few close intimate friends rather than many superficial relationships -> Sense of humour directed at oneself or

...the thing is the diagnosis of your own wishful thinking and how does it relate to the psychological pattern of the person you meet and also on the other hand you need to be careful not to entangle yourself into something that comes out of loneliness that is why many relatioships go int a sphere where none of the lovers would want - they are just the constructs of our loneliness and wish that somebody can fill in that void which is something without any positive perspective, it is part of neurotical process..

There is a single Consciousness, the Universal Mind, which pervades the entire Universe. It is all knowing, all powerful, all creative and always present everywhere at the same time. Your consciousness is part of it - it is It. All is One. You are connected to everything and every one. You are already connected what you want. To the degree that you truly comprehend and internalise this Truth, you will be able to become the master of your mind and the director of your life. Each and every one of us is a manifestation of this single Universal Consciousness. There is profound truth in the ancient teaching that we are all One. We are all connected - not only to each other but to all of Nature and to everything in the Universe. This is the Law of One. What you do to others, you do to yourself. The way you treat Nature, you in fact treat yourself. The separateness you "see" is an illusion of the personality ego. The true nature of reality is non-dualistic, meaning that while thi

this world is not for people like us, we can have our space living in tranquility and never surrender to anything which is fading away like temporary states, emotions, doubts - if you look into your heart - see your own heart as a centre of Universe - and foremostly look into it when in doubts the answers will always come but if you surrender yourself to insanity of temporary things you will lose this battle

So you are asking me what should you do?... ask yourself about this because if you ask and answer you will truly start the change asking me is like asking a stone statue of Buddha all answers can be answered with the eternal smile Search for this smile inside yourself then feel it All the answers can be answered and most imporantly if you answer it for yourself then it is a part of you, part of the very process of change...

There was a young man who loved his wife and she loved him, they thought that they will be forever with each other but one day the ma was a bit sad and as a honest and loving husband had to tell his wife what bothered him He told her: Everything in this world is just momentary and there will be a time when we will pass away She told him: Imagine there is a place, a special place where all the things and people who are dear to you are waiting for you it is a special place where you don't have to worry if you will be successful or not - because this place is already a success Everytime you think about the failure and pain please travel to this place - it is your asylum and no one judges you there, the more you feel it the more you trust that all things which hurt you are just momentary - they only last as long as you let them to last if you feed yourself with love the space of this beautiful place extends to more space in your life and at some point your life and this beautiful place

Time which is induced by lack of expanding consciousness is usually filled with boredom and nurtured by senseless consumption and consumerism in wider perspective. Time of pain affected by our sensitivity and pursuit of expanding Inner Universe filled with creativity nurtures our transformation power and works as an asset that cannot be denied by anything or anybody.