why?

The eternal question which You ask Yourself now and then: why? ...
how about asking: in what way? under which conditions? how does it look as an overal process?
asking Yourself why often leads to a bottomless pit of suffering, despair, sadness and leaves You in a point blank, point of no return - only one return is available - back to the old patterns: why me?
asking Yourself questions about the nature of everchanging process can evoke stronger focus on the core of the "problem" You bear and eventually may lead you to some useful notions...instead of asking Yourself: does it make any sense to You? please aks Yourself: how can You make use of all this what you already know?